fix(presence-service): 添加 --no-deps 避免重启已运行的基础设施

deploy.sh start/up 命令添加 --no-deps 选项，防止在启动
presence-service 时重新创建已经运行的共享基础设施容器
(postgres, redis, kafka)

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backend/services/presence-service/deploy.sh

@@ -57,7 +57,8 @@ case "$1" in
         load_env
         log_info "Starting $SERVICE_NAME using shared infrastructure..."
         cd "$SERVICES_DIR"
-        docker compose up -d "$SERVICE_NAME"
+        # Use --no-deps to avoid recreating infrastructure that's already running
+        docker compose up -d --no-deps "$SERVICE_NAME"
         log_success "$SERVICE_NAME started"
         log_info "Waiting for service to be healthy..."
         sleep 5
@@ -94,7 +95,8 @@ case "$1" in
         load_env
         log_info "Starting $SERVICE_NAME in foreground..."
         cd "$SERVICES_DIR"
-        docker compose up "$SERVICE_NAME"
+        # Use --no-deps to avoid recreating infrastructure that's already running
+        docker compose up --no-deps "$SERVICE_NAME"
         ;;
 
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